一对情侣

一对情侣。。
不用一直粘在一起。。
放你男友自由。。
不用一直管着他。。。
给你女朋友空间。。
她爱你，自然会很听你的话。。
不用一直想着。。。
＂为什么没收到信息？＂
＂为什么没有通知我？＂
什么之类的，一直SmS..
怎么那么多废话？
各有个的东西做。。
爱＝包容＋原谅＋自由＋空间。。
不是闹着别扭，等着他安慰你Sayang你。。
有时侯不是他不在乎你。。
而是把他看得太重了。。＂
他跟朋友在一起时，
不要打扰他，
应给他空间，
告诉他你会等信息就好。。
＂不要翻他的信息，你不是侦探，他也不是犯人。。。
＂不要给他做不到的承诺，这只是应酬。。
＂真正爱你的男孩，就算没见面，
但你会发现他手机里都是你的信息。。。
＂真正爱你的男孩，他不怕你生气，只怕你生气后不理他。。

Already Gone

Remember all the things we wanted
Now all our memories they're haunted
We were always meant to say goodbye

Even with our fists held high
It never would've worked out right
We were never meant for do or die

I didn't want us to burn out
I didn't come here to hold you, now I can't stop

I want you to know that it doesn't matter
Where we take this road someone's gotta go
And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better
But I want you to move on so I'm already gone

Looking at you makes it harder
But I know that you'll find another
That doesn't always make you want to cry

Started with a perfect kiss then we could feel the poison set in
Perfect couldn't keep this love alive
You know that I love you so, I love you enough to let you go

I want you to know that it doesn't matter
Where we take this road someone's gotta go
And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better
But I want you to move on so I'm already gone

I'm already gone, already gone
You can't make it feel right when you know that it's wrong
I'm already gone, already gone
There's no moving on so I'm already gone

Already gone, already gone, already gone
Already gone, already gone, already gone, yeah

Remember all the things we wanted
Now all our memories they're haunted
We were always meant to say goodbye

I want you to know that it doesn't matter
Where we take this road someone's gotta go
And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better
But I want you to move on so I'm already gone

I'm already gone, already gone
You can't make it feel right when you know that it's wrong
I'm already gone, already gone
There's no moving on so I'm already gone


*** http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugxP67M-Rqw ***

Issues

Sometimes
I Feel like I’m going out of
My mind,

Boy the way you do me is a
damn crime,

But then you smile at me
and its all right,

With you there aint nothin' in between,

Every time that I walk out the door,
Tell myself I can't take it no more,

There’s a part of me won't let you go
Keep saying yes when my minds saying no,

Me and my heart we got issues,
Don’t know if I should hate you or miss you,
Damn, I wish that I could resist you,
Can't decide if I should leave you or kiss you.
Me and my heart we got issues, issues, issues.
We got issues, issues, issues.

Its so wrong, boy you leave me hangin' for so long,
You empty out my love until its all gone,
You change the words but still it's the same song,
I’m tired of the melody.

Change my number and throw out your clothes,
But my feelings for you, it still shows,
I keep building the walls round my heart,
But then I see you, and it all falls apart...

Why fight it, cant hide it
Truth is I think I like it,
Confusion, illusions
Still I don’t know which way to go….

Me and my heart we got issues
Don’t know whether I should hate you or miss you.

这首歌，正好反映出我现在的心情，我现在的感受，我正在面对的。我不知要写些什么，只是很想有人陪我聊天，我想要呐喊！我想某某人听我诉说，谁都可以，有谁能来听我诉说呢？？？

时间真的就可以让人忘记一切吗？

时间真的就可以让人忘记一切吗？可为什么在我的记忆里那些开心与不开心的回忆，却在心里形成了一个可怕又让人舍不得遗忘的回忆，有时候真的好想忘记一切，好想失忆，曾经的一切让我伤心过、失落过、快乐过…

也许每个人心中都有一段不能说的秘密吧，没有人愿意把自己的曾经告诉别人，没有人喜欢受伤，没有人可以把曾经忘记，就算时间过的在久，心中的记忆却无法抹掉，只会让人记得越清晰，其实当每个人遇到不开心的事的时候总是会安慰自己说：“没事的我会勇敢努力的忘记一切的，时间可以让我遗忘从前的不快乐！”

其实那都只是为了给自己找个台阶下，没有谁可以忘记一切，除非你没有心，除非你是真的失忆，时间只能代表这件事情已经过去并不能代表你能忘记，我想大家都不想让自己永远活在过去吧，我希望世界上所有的人都能勇敢的向前走往前看，就算有些事情无法忘掉，我相信只要大家努力我们就会在次看到希望…

孤單的恋情

如果当年，她说喜歡你的眼睛，那么你會买最好的眼霜去滋养维持，想像會再見到她時，依然能閃爍出美好的光芒。其實，你並不知道她這句讚美的意義是什么，或許他当時也只是隨口说说，或者搬出了哪個課文上的句子，但你會当真。

也許，人有两样東西是沒法隱瞞的，貧窮和愛。

越隱瞞，越欲蓋彌彰。可是很多時候你仍想隱瞞，出於天生的不安，环境的约束，或者其他理由，然而，无法诉说的愛情，卻比能告白的愛情來得更殷切。這殷切會一...直持續，被幻想完善，堅不可摧。

肯定會有人指責，說不真实。甚至，惦念得严重了，你也會想，是自己错误的美化而已。可什么是真实？历史都能改写，何況只是你心中的一個传说。

你从未想过，匆匆的交往，竟让自己孤單地掛念一生。這种甜蜜，這种苦痛，沒人贊成，沒人了解，也可能根本沒有人知道。一切，不知是劫是緣。

What Is LOVE?

LOVE is respect, wanting to help that person in any aspect of their lives.
Protect them from harm.
Feeling safe with that person.
Proud of being with them.
Sharing your hopes and dreams together.
Feeling like you can conquer the world together!
Knowing each other will be there 100% no matter what and continue on until the day you depart.

P/s: Quote from Jean, The Book Of LOVE.

有一种爱叫做放手

放手是一种无奈的绝望，痛彻心扉。当曾经珍爱如生命的人即将相逢陌路时，才恍然大悟：原来，曾经以为的天长地久，其实不过是萍水相逢。曾经以为可以这样牵着手一路走下去，可是放手了才明白一切只是两条平行线，当一切都烟消云散，平行的依旧平行。即使相隔不远，也已是人各天涯。

勇敢的代价是自己先放下，承认失败、接受无奈，轻轻地叹口气，祝福她/他今后幸福快乐。从此心若芷水，难起波澜。卷缩在角落，等待着伤口平复，体会敢爱敢恨敢失去的洒脱。幸福的感觉也许只能刹那，刹那过后，是一个人的精彩。放手的日子，总是落落孤欢，会莫名地为了一首歌，一部戏，一个情节。甚或是一句话而泪流满面。总觉得天是黑的，云是灰的。总觉得失去了生活的意义。朋友告诉我：你什么也没有失去，你只是回到了认识她/他以前的日子。我释然，就像烟花不可能永远挂在天际，只要曾经灿烂过，又何必执着于没有烟花的日子呢？

我们都是凡尘男女，挣不出纠缠的情网。逃不过爱与被爱的旋涡，心碎神伤后。是漫无止境的寂寞，寂寞吗？或许吧！再也不用为了猜测她/他的心思而绞尽脑汁，会不会轻舒一口气，感觉轻松一点点呢？是真的想开了吗？可以平静的面对他和她。纵然心里有种隐隐的说不出的酸楚。可是我不会落泪，哭泣是因为一个人的记忆在心里。无论怎样也不肯散去。我一次次的问自己：“爱你我怕了吗？”答案是肯定的，我怕了，我真的怕了，千疮百孔的心，脆弱得再也经不起痛入骨髓的折磨，于是我放了她，也给自己放了一条生路。把她/他凝成一幅画，深深的刻在脑海里...看着，想着，可是不会在做画中人，置身画外，才能更好地欣赏画的美丽，不是吗？用力地握握手，真诚地说声：“再见，珍重！”转过头，洒脱的走开，让背影深深地烙在她的脑海里，当你能够用释然的心态去回忆，你们的点点滴滴，你就可以体会到放手后的美丽。
　　
上帝让我在错误的时间遇上了你，我...哭了。
它让我在正确的时间离开了你，你...会哭吗？
一次次说这次真的放下了，不知道自己还能这样骗自己多久。

Fate

无聊地玩了Facebook里的一个游戏，尽然得到以上的结果。如果那是真的就好咯。。。杰啊杰，你还是早点睡啦，不要再发白日梦了。